Dear Paul:

A pair of tights or a leotard are easy to stash away where your family won't see them. You can wear them under your clothes, or slip into them when you're away from home. The mischief of doing this can be fun! If there's no dance shop near you, try a pair of opaque black pantyhose or a plain woman's swim suit. Enjoy your fetish! Many salesgirls perfectly OK with helping guys to choose tights, pantyhose, etc. So don't be shy to ask for these things!