 
Balletlover - Balletmania
geschrieben von BalletMaster at am 13.08. um 22:32:23 - als Antwort auf: The Way I Walk von >I told my best friend about the remark, and she said: "Well you do have a feminine walk." Does ballet turn boys feminine? Do the tights reveal femininity that baggy pants hide? Wehnever I have my tights on I'm hard. Is that affecting the way I walk in them? If I got control over that, would my movements become more boyish? Help. Hey Balletboned...there's nothing to be worried about! Everybody walks differently, cause everybody's body is different. There's no such thing as a masculine or feminine walk! Those are just concepts a stupid society has created in an effort to put people in little boxes or pidgeon-holes. Don't change the way you dance cause of something some bone-head might say! You have to use your muscles the way they need to be used. BALLET DOES NOT TURN BOYS FEMININE!!! There may be some psychological mumbo-jumbo that want's to try to explain everything, but that's been invented by little minds who think there has to be an answer for everything. TIGHTS REVEAL YOUR BODY, NOT YOUR SOUL!!! What's in your heart and soul is what matters. Ballet is a great place to ouen-up what is inside you and express that to others, on-stage and even in classes. It's honesty. If it's necessary for a ballet dancer to use movements that some stupid society thinks are feminine, then the dancer should be true to himself and not worry about the stupid society. A hard-on shouldn't matter or affect the way you walk. Getting rid of a hard-on does not make your movements different or more "boyish." If you have continued worries about being "boyish" versus "girlish" you may have to speak with a counsellor, but realize that these concerns are NOT UNUSUAL in a maturing male. You'll find that mixture of what the stupid society calls "maculine" and "feminine" that suits you, and don't be ashamed of bieng yourself. Antworten zu diesem Beitrag:
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