 
Balletlover - Balletmania
written by Seamless at on 15.05. at 21:33:14 - as answer to: Re: I lost it?? by Dep >>>>To answer the question, yep, I've "lost it" for periods as long as a month, generally when I've just gotten into a new relationship. I'd meet a girl, find out she was interested, take her out, and if she was interested in a second date, I'd go home and toss out all of the tights I'd accrued between my last girlfriend and this one. Which I'd always eventually regret (I threw away some great tights!) Then one of two things would happen. Either the girl in question would turn out to be some variety of toxic (I lived with a girl once who preferred cats to guys, for example,) I'd find my desire for wearing dancewear increasing, until I'd find myself circling the hosiery department again.>>>>In two cases (not counting my little hexbreaker, Dea,) the relationship eventually progressed to the point where I could get the girl at least mildly involved with the fetish, though in only one case did it progress to the "let's both wear 'em" stage. What I'm trying to say is, you probably are just putting the bodystocking thing on the back burner because the new relationship is exciting enough as it is. If it doesn't work out (boo), you'll find that the desire for dancewear'll be there to get you to the next big chance. If it does work out (yay), you'll eventually feel the desire return anyway, because great sexual relationships are all about expressing your sexual personality, and celebrating that of your lover. >>>>That's what's happening to me and Dea, anyway!-Depon--Hey Depon - thanks for your insightful point of view. You're probably right; it could be that after a bit of time, it'll resurface again. I've also gone through a similar stage that you mentioned, where I'd be crazy over a girl I'm dating and toss all of my tights. I would sometimes ceremoniously put them on and then cut myself free with scissors. Kind of symbolic! After losing a few great pairs of tights and unitards, I went the route of neatly folding them into plastic bags, cramming them into a shoebox, duct taping it shut, labelling it "junk", and sticking the box in an obscure out of the way place. The intention would be to toss it once I was sure I was "cured." Then, a week or two after the relationship ended, I would dig out the box, look at it, then put it away. Until the day would come when I just couldn't resist anylonger--I'd rip off the duct tape, free my favourite unitard from its coffin of plastic wrap, and put it on as fast as I could. Ahhhhhh........ ;-) I guess it's been a while since I've felt this way. Yet, it seems different somehow, from what I remember. To be sure it's just not my libido "on hold", I tossed in a favourite porno tape I have... and after a few minutes I was ready to explode. So, who knows. Time will tell. In the meantime, my unitards and tights have nothing to fear. :-) ~Seamless~ Answers to this message: 
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