>>>>> Lady A- for what it's worth, very few know what your brother is going through at this point- I speak with some experience on this- he needs your unconditional support and love at this time. I assume he has it, but if there's any question, please redouble your efforts to reassure him that you and others are pulling for him. I know these are only words on a screen from a stranger on the internet, but know that there are others out here that are wishing him well.    I know this site has been plagued with brain- dead trolls for a while, so if you see anything ugly with the name "Vic" attatched to it, rest assured that it is a forgery.     Best wishes, Vic