 
Balletlover - Balletmania
written by SeXuAllY CoNfUsEd at on 31.08. at 17:46:08 - as answer to: Re: I am not turned on by men, sometimes by women, but always by tights by The Riddler at You make a very interesting point there Mr. Riddler. I heard it once said that you are what you eat. But even more importantly we are the sum of everything we think, feel, and do. Even an alcoholic that recovers always has that past that is always a part of them and from what I have learned they are never supposed to return to it. Maybe some can drink a little wine here and there. Well obviously wearing tights does not have the debilitating affects of too much alcohol! But once you have that mental connection of sexuality with a thing, it is a part of you that will always be there. I guess one could look at it as an advantage of having another sexual outlet. I understand that this is something to embrace and accept rather than torture myself about. I guess in the end it is being confident in one's sexual orientation. Being hetero but with a fetish is just another combination of psychological ingredients. I guess I just don't want it to interfere, like if I have to imagine the woman I am having sex with as wearing tights and as she moans it is not just me within her but that amazing feeling of being encased in tights. It has only been a very few times that I have been so confident as to not even think about tights and just enjoy that glorious feeling of being joined with a woman. :) Perhaps as I work on this perspective I will experience that more and more. I hope so. Not just for my sake but for hers! Answers to this message: 
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