geschrieben von Kerry             am 18.11. um 21:01:31 - als Antwort auf: Re: What do women think about a guy that likes to wear leotards and tights? von Dep>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> there is nothing wrong at all with a straight guy that loves tights and leotards.they are the greatest articles of clothing ever made.>>>>>>>> everyday after a hard days work , i look forward to slipping into a pair of tights and leotards. i don't fell completely "right" until i do. >>>>>>>> when i'm home i'm always in my dancewear,my wife is used to seeing me" dressed">>>>>>>> i have more pairs and types of tights,leotards,legwarmers than i can count.she loves the way i look.>>>>>>>> keep wearing your tights and leotards guys. guys that dont have no idea what they are missing. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> i've been hooked ever since me and my friend billy slipped into some of my sisters red tights when we were about 12. >>>>>>>> maine tights lover>>>>>>>>>>Sorry, TT-it's another guy! Your stories parallel mine so closely, it's almost spooky. Though lately I've been wondering how many of the girls I dated who said they liked me in dancewear truly did...maybe it was the "well, it could be worse" effect! My present girlfriend seems to be okay with my fetish, but I get the distinct feeling that she'd prefer it not to be a factor, if you know what I mean.>>>>>>>However, I once overheard two girls at a rehearsal for "Romeo & Juliet" dishing about how hot we guys looked in our costumes (I say with no modesty whatsoever that one of them seemed to place me pretty high on her list of guys who look good in tights. She just didn't like me personally. Nuts.) -Depon >>>>>>I use to wonder what the girls in my ballet classes thought of me when I first started taking lessons. Six years later, I can tell you with 100% confidence that most girls find a boy's tighted butt and frontal anatomy to be a complete turn-on. I can tell you I don't get any second looks in a pair of trousers, but get all the attention I want when I don my thong leo and a pair of shimmery nylon tights. I know you guys can verify this!>>>>>>>>Yeah! I remember one October a few years ago when I took a weekend job selling Hallowe'en costumes. I didn't get to wear actual tights on the job (I was pretty "closeted" at the time), but I'd usually wear a pair of running tights under this devil costume I wore. I worked with a lot of young spanish women who were pretty timid sexually, but there was this one girl who ran her hand over my thighs and butt when she saw me in my costume for the first time, saying that she wanted to know what spandex felt like on someone else...I've just been dredging up memories right and left today! -Depon >>>>Another thought on the subject. When I go to my local dancewear shop, the female clerk is the most friendly person I have ever met. She always is right there to assist me in my selection of tights, slippers and leotards. She insists that I try everything on for propoer fit and tells me to let her see when I am dress so she can properly fit me. When female patrons come in the store, I notice they do not get the same level of service and she often ignores them until they are ready to make their purchase. She is a real friend to me now and know she loves it when I come in the store. Is it me or my state of dress that intrigues her? I believe she just enjoys dressing me and looking...what do you think?>>>>>>Sure sounds that way to me, Ker! Here's how I see it. Anybody working in a retail environment has to deal with the routine of their job, and a break in that routine is always welcome (unless the salesperson themselves thrive on boredom). A girl (or for that matter a guy) working in dancewear sales spends most of their workday dealing with girls and women. A guy walks in and POW! Instant break in the routine. If the girls hetero (or the guy gay) and the customer's reasonably attractive, that gives the experience a little spice, and if the guy becomes a regular and the two of them get along, (as it seems to be in your case,) well, you're in dancewear-retail Valhalla, aren't you? Congrats!>>>>>>Also, my experience has always seemed to be that older women working dancewear retail (or ladies' hosiery) are more likely to be chilly to us tights-guys, while younger ones tend to be a little more open about it (though exceptions on both sides definitely exist.) All of my best tights-buying experiences have been with salesgirls in their twenties or younger. >>>>>>So good luck with your retail buddy, Kerry! Hope something develops (if that's what the two of you want, that is!) And if it doesn't, at least you've got someone cool to buy dancewear from! -Depon >>Thanks Depon..I agree that I think she enjoys my company and I must admit, I really provide her with a show while I am there. I don't believe it is just coincidence that she always selects the more, shall I say, revealing dance wear for me to try on, always insisting she see me once they are on. The store owner is an older woman that I rarely see. My friend I would guess is in her twenties and always selects an armload of the sheerest of tights and never a leotard unless it is a thong-tank. I have seen her break the packaging on tights for me to try knowing full well the owner would have a duck knowing she was doing that. But hey, I enjoy making her day, after all she makes mine when I see her smiles of delight and lustful stares penetrating every inch of my anatomy. I have thought about asking her for a date but am afraid that would spoil what we already have. What do you think??>>>>I think you should keep your wits about you, and keep an eye open for more signs of interest on her part. You can gently let her know that you're interested in her without scaring her away by just giving her the occaisional compliment (as subtle as a warm smile when you look at her-I'm pretty sure you're already doing this!) and see what her reaction is. Then, you could also just ask her to do something that the two of you might find mutually interesting (Hey, have you seen "Billy Elliott" yet?) And remember, it's pretty much up to you whether or not things get uncomfortable after you ask her for a date (if she's not interested, that is-hope that's not the case!) If you still respond to her as someone you like spending time with in any situation,then things should continue as always (except she'll start looking at you as someone with a certain ammount of desire for her, and while I've met girls who don't like that, they're definitely in the minority. Just be light-hearted, don't make too big a thing about it, y'know?>I'm rootin' for ya! -Depon Thanks Depon, I appreciate your support and helpful advise. I don't even know if she's got a boyfriend either! I would settle for just being her own private dancer! Will see how things develop! Antworten zu diesem Beitrag: |
