Actually, why should you be concerned with a leotard keeping the crotch up for your tights? If you are wearing a leotard over a dance belt, then the crotch part of your tights is not going to sag.
I read the original post and think "You" are the homophobe! If you really didn't care, you woudn't have made the above remark in the first place.
But, no one is going to stop you from wearing your leotard over your tights.
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