Having danced for many years with guys in tights, I can tell you that although you never have much time in a ballet class to do much "loooking" I do find it quite cool when a guy wears tights. But, that does not mean I accept guys who wear tights as a fetish. Those guys I can't quite figure out. As I said, in a ballet class guys in tights are cool. Outside of a ballet class...........well to each his own I guess. But I would never date a guy with a tights fetish, or date a guy who wanted to date me only because I wear tights. After all, who would a guy like that love more? Me, or tights?