 the male dancer
written by WhiteGuy at on 16.10. at 20:49:25 - as answer to: Racial Bigotry? by CP at >>If you're really having this problem, what's happening with your dancebelt? Doesn't it hold you in enough? Does it fit properly (i.e. not too loose)? (But don't get one that's too tight.)>>The male bulge is a fact of ballet due to our functional uniform. And male dancers are human, and are made this way. Everybody knows what's down there, and although some men might be bigger, the initial shock is the viewers problem, NOT YOUR PROBLEM.>>Hey, your family has seen you before....mom and dad changed your diapers! They'll know what's there! Don't worry about them.>>In short, worry about your dance! Don't worry about how your crotch looks! If people have a problem, it's their problem! There's no reasonn to be ashamed of being human!>>BalletMaster>>>>>Well, I am not sure how to explain this. I just finished highschool two years ago and I am currently enrolled at CCM (Cincinnati) and I have already started. I love my tights and I do have an awesome body that I worked very hard to develop during school. My main problem is my crotch area. Being black, I have a rather large, thick penis for my age (6.25 inches flat) and that creates a large bulge in the front. I am embarassed. I have tried to tuck it, however, that is not very natural and is very discomforting. Believe it or not, I have openly discussed this delimma with my instructors and they both said not to worry about it and try to understand that those things come with the territory. What am I going to do because when my parents and friends come to visit and such and performance....I don't want them to stare. Any suggestions. >Ballet Master, please look at the following statement:>"Being black, I have a rather large, thick penis for my age (6.25 inches flat">>....those were "his" words, Ballet Master, and for that reason alone, I took the post for what I beleived it to be: A totally false one, literally having no credibility at all.>What's more, I don't think that anyone else would believe such a post anyway. I mean, why did he have to mention that he was black? Was it to give some sort of stereotypical credibility to his large and bulging manhood that he claimed was "6.25 inches flat????". >If he was really being truthful, then why couldn't he have simply stated that he is afraid of the bulge in his tights, leave out the fact (or fiction) that he was "black", etc., and then await answers that would have been more inclined to deal with a more credible posting?>Please understand, Ballet Master, I am not stupid, nor are most of the people who post here. But some of the posts on these boards are more than simply a bit incredible, they are simply outrageous and have no credibility whatsoever.>Again, he "Antwon" stated...."Being black, I have a rather large, thick penis for my age (6.25 inches flat)"....sorry, but this statement is the one that reeks of a racial stereotype/bigotry that caused a response from me.>Aside from that, the worst I would ever accuse you, Ballet Master, of being, is sometimes a bit overly trusting of some of the posts here. Which is why I have such a great deal of respect for you.>CP I agree, this posting by Antwon seemed very suspect. What black man states his issue that way? It must be either an ego problem, or someone pretending to be so. However, there was no need to reply in kind. Fight fire with fire? You presumed to speak for all white men, that we are ashamed of our size. WELL, I am definitely not. I'm 7" at peak, about average, and have always been able to perform to my partner's delight. Actually, diameter matters more than length from what I've heard most women say (I'm 2"). And besides, when I'm "flat", I become microscopic. I'm barely over 2", which HELPs tremendously in physical activities. So, there you have it--don't immediately assume all white men share this supposed "phallic inferiority" complex. Answers to this message: 
|
