Opinions are like noses, we all have them. Is'nt the pupose of any forum to air out our opinions, albeit with an immature and insecure individual such as Mr. Mike C and try to come to an amicable agreement.

  However this has truly become an excercise in futility as someone like that has a lot of growing up to do, and nobody here is going to be able to do that for him except himself.

  The best thing to do is leave him alone, and let him try to find things out for himself.

>It's sad that Mike C.'s ignorant comments have generated so many replies.  Why can't we just ignore his drivel and talk about issues confronting "serious male dancers"?