 the male dancer
written by Mancer at on 30.01. at 14:28:39 - as answer to: Gay dancers? ( no im not offering its an essay question i would like an opinion by Dancer_Boy at You talk about Gay and then Femininity as stereotyped sexualitly....but you completely skirt expression of "individual sexuality" which is always avoided in (expecially American) Society. This stereotyping is what represses folks to think that if you dress a certain way you are either gay, a crossdresser or feminate. To some people you would be in touch with expressing your sexuality, open minded and graceful. It is a matter of looking at the glass of water as "half empty" (which society does all the time) or "half full" (which means society has to change and be more accepting to move forward). It is permissible to say you may change the mind of one...but a definite struggle to try to make a revolution and change the attitude of society although the Gay movement through the 90's has made an impact and it is now acceptable to be Gay by and large although people repress this "individual sexuality" due to society. And I'll leave this go now, I think ya'll see the arguement. After my writing of being open minded.I must say I am a happy straight male with a wonderful girlfriend.I am just open minded and tired of my personal sexuality and what is sexy to me and my girlfriend being repressed and categorized to comfort society. Basically, being confident in whatever you do is sexy; not gay, or feminate. But society doesnt always accept an indivuals perception or expression of what is sexy. I think ya'll can put two and two together and understand what I am saying. Mancer Answers to this message:
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